Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Its all about asking

Most of the time we dont recognise the values we revere in our lives unless and until someone asks about it. I have always found it difficult to answer the question "What is your aim in life?".
I have answered this question in my job interviews and in college scrap books But never have been honest with the answer.

This post is not about finding answer to that question for I am not completely insane yet.(I hope atleast few people can attest that) Well It is about appreciating the art of being questioned. I used to ridicule an associate of mine for tracking my answers to questions like
"How many people did u fight with today ?"
"When was the last time u cried ?"

Dreading this questioning process I stopped fightin and crying unknowingly.Although I was never aware of the positive change it could bring,I was deeply disappointed when he said he had stopped tracking answers.

How good would it be if someone can ask you a series of questions everyday and track the answers for you?. It would be even better if they can analyze it and give some progress results. Instead of my mom saying "Eat vegetables and fruits" everytime on the phone, If someone can ask me"did u eat well today" ? on a day to day basis won't it be nice .

I turned to my best friend who has known me for years.We prepared a series of question we wanted to be asked with topics ranging from health,work and values. I work my day towards getting positive answers to all the questions.I am looking forward for the positive change!

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